As we are also developing a sense of helping others through our fundraising goal via the Playathon to support need-based scholarships, we are allowing our children to learn about helping one another and realizing that their music can provide a meaningful contribution to others.  Whether through sharing the music itself through a performance or sharing the knowledge learned with a peer or less-experienced student, we are providing an opportunity for our students to grow as human beings and to connect our community together. In the end, we are learning through our music a sense of "being" and a sense of "belonging." Through this kind of experience, we believe our children can be both caring and kind.

Reflection is not easy to encourage in our children. We are often led to "tell" them what to do. Dr. Suzuki wrote in his book Ability Development from Age Zero: "reflection is also an ability...Human growth is completed upon a reflective base..." (p. 85) In order to encourage reflection, we guide parents to think about asking their children questions during their practice sessions: Which finger plays this note? Does this part sound right to you? Let's listen to the recording, and then can you tell me what parts might sound different?

Teaching our children to reflect can be a slower and longer process, but can be the most beneficial in the long term.

As parents, our most important responsibility may be to raise our children well. Although we may push them to get terrific grades in school, excel in sports and mathematics, or take music lessons, our most important role is to love them and to nurture them to be kind hearted and good human beings. Although we may say we want our children to have successful careers--have monetary success--more importantly if they are admirable in character, learn to work hard and be caring people, then we will have parenting success.

We all need courage when times are tough. One would think that when times are so uncertain, we should take important measures quickly and aggressively. This may not be the best way to make decisions. Yes, the conditions that are present must be observed, acknowledged and analyzed. Nevertheless, we must not lose sight of our vision for our families' lives, for our society, and for our world. We must adhere to our core values and find strength to be courageously moving step by step in the right direction. We must not shut down and seek short term remedies, but reflect on the longer range goals. We all need courage and must stay the course even in turbulent waters.

In our Suzuki community we encourage the growth and nurturing of the whole child and the whole student. The patience our Suzuki teachers exemplify is the result of our knowing and believing in the potential of each student. The relationship built over time is one of mutual respect and love. Our Suzuki preschool encourages feelings of gratitude and feelings of kindness. We want these emotions to be valued and freely expressed. As a sign of love, what if we all thought of the small acts of kindness we can do for each other. Bringing someone a cup of coffee when they are busy, washing the dishes when there are a few in the sink, observing a chore that needs to be done and doing it---can all be small acts of kindness. We can encourage our children that on Valentine's Day, the best gift of love is giving a hug and going to practice without being reminded!

Sometimes, however, there are some who do not like the time spent in a group class or a lesson to chat about the weather, what a student might have done over the weekend, or during their vacation. This is important time because it creates connection between the teacher and the student and builds the student's sense of belonging. When we are only serious and only focused on gaining information, the experiences that build a sense of belonging are lost. It is through this sense of belonging that students do not quit. Students persevere and feel motivated by connecting with their peers.

I believe these elements are so important in making our school what it is. Our teachers are there and fully committed to the learning and happiness of their students. We must all work to encourage our students to keep trying and work to become better. We want parents to feel that they, too, belong to our school and can learn about how their children learn, meet other parents, or sit and have a cup of coffee! It is this sense of belonging that then allows our students to venture outside of their "comfort zone" on the journey of learning and aspiring for excellence.

February is Black History month. This is important because we must recognize that so much of Black History is not known. Many of us have not listened to their stories and conversations. This has led to our efforts to reverse the centuries of discrimination by consciously taking steps to recognize past mistakes and take positive actions now. We want to build inclusionary practices that accept people of all skin colors, cultures, and backgrounds. We want to welcome others and make us all feel that we all belong. Music can do this---we can come together and make our voices and music heard.

We must allow time for persons to build this sense of belonging. This starts with emotional connection and language that is not focused on "we" and "them" but rather "us." In order to feel a sense of belonging we must spend time doing so. In truth, a little less activity and hustle and bustle, will make us all feel more like we belong to a community and make us happier and healthier.

In the Suzuki pedagogy, Dr. Suzuki would say "human character first" rather than 'win competitions" when referring to his approach to teaching the violin. He was known for practicing and teaching tirelessly throughout his long life. In his book, Ability Development from Age Zero Dr. Suzuki talks about the graduation tapes he would listen to and then send back comments to the students and to their teachers. HIs messages to the teachers were focused on the technical improvements that could be made. His comments to the students always emphasized playing from the heart, being a good person, and encouraging to continue to be kind to others. This is an aspect of the Japanese culture: to feel that one has a responsibility to society to the point where one's contribution to others is greater than one's desires as an individual.

What is excellent musical technique? It is the ability to use one's body and physiology in a natural and efficient manner towards producing the best musical tone and expression.

This can only be done by developing the student's technique step-by-step, developing the ear, nurturing the heart of the student so that their spirit and emotions can be transmitted through the music, and surrounding the musician with an environment where the ongoing process and growth continues to be nurtured. The pedagogy training Suzuki teachers receive has specific teaching points at every level, emphasizing small steps and repetition, but also an accumulative attitude towards skills and repertoire. Similar to vocabulary in any language, we reuse our repertoire over and over building more advanced control and technique and leading us to what appears to be "effortless" playing.

As many are aware, western Classical music originating in western Europe has a centuries old history that is the basis of the repertoire in the Suzuki pedagogy. 

This has brought millions of children throughout the world to learn about European music. Furthermore, it comes from Japan where there is a different culture of Asian classical music that is also centuries old. Interestingly, it is the music of Bach, Beethoven, Clementi, von Paradis or even Dutton that have brought children from many cultures together.  By attending Festivals and summer Institutes, children from around the world can learn, play music, and be in harmony together.

Children learn to be optimistic from their parents. We model the behavior of looking at challenges as growth opportunities. Dr Suzuki said "Children learn to smile from their parents." Perhaps this comes even when facing a particular challenge or seemingly insurmountable task. As adult caregivers we need to moderate that tasks are not so overwhelming as to ensure failure. However, we must also allow our children to fail so that we can share in the learning experience. Can we encourage our children to try something just to see what will happen and not whether they will win or lose? What was the outcome of the disappointment? What steps were needed to better succeed? When children learn that situations are not "win-lose" but "learn-learn" then we can build optimism into accepting new challenges. When risks can be taken with hope and a positive attitude, the results can be surprisingly better than expected.

Teaching children to forgive themselves can be difficult. Children can easily be embarrassed and set high expectations of themselves. Our role is to continue to encourage them. Learning to try again at something that did not go well can be healing. In a world where people have high expectations, we all need to practice a little forgiveness.

Performing does not come easily to everyone. In fact, performing can cause a lot of anxiety and stress. In our Suzuki community there is a priority to develop the heart of the child.  We emphasize the process in learning, and preparing for a performance requires rehearsing.  Mental preparation for the concert is part of the process and is a life skill that we teach through music.  However, mental preparation, practicing, and rehearsing is developed as a life skill for any situation they may encounter---even as adults.

As I was preparing a student for his solo this coming weekend, we talked about placing our hands in rest position and just thinking about the music. We also talked about placing our hands in the ready position and hearing the music inside our head. Finally, we talked about taking a breath before playing the piece. These three steps were a way to thoughtfully and mindfully prepare. It would create a moment of silence that would help the audience be prepared to listen. At the end of a piece, it is important to hold our position (arms in the air) while the final vibrations fade and count out the final rests in the last measure. These silences are very powerful and meaningful.

Art and learning take time. The creativity in music comes as a result of the discipline of the training. The expression we nurture through classical music comes from the discipline of playing skillfully and with the correct style of the piece of music.  As many of you heard in the last faculty concert, our teachers are very creative. Whether it is a Brahms sonata or an improvisation made up on the spot, it took many years of training for them to arrive at this point of creativity. The achievements of our students are likewise the result of many hours (and years) of practice and support from teachers, parents and adult caregivers who value their music education. We want our students to identify themselves as intelligent, creative, and respectful human beings.  We do this through our music and preschool instruction.  The careful study, repetition, and performances build the student's identity in being a musician. We are so grateful for this community effort and commitment to music lessons that build the identity of the student as creative individuals and musicians. 

In this Thanksgiving season, I want to thank all of you who make up our Suzuki School's community.  I wish you all a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday and look forward to our continued and shared experiences around music and learning. 

Dr. Suzuki was inspired to teach music as a result of the devastations of World War II on the children of Japan.  Nurturing children to learn how to make beautiful music, to be respectful of each other, and to learn how challenges can be overcome if taken step by step, is a great joy in being a Suzuki teacher.  It is not just the music, but it is also "the music." Our work as Suzuki teachers gives us hope.

The basic law of energy is that "energy is neither created nor destroyed."  The concept of conservation of energy does not mean "to save" energy, but rather to convert energy from one form to another as efficiently as possible. Car engines that burn gasoline convert this chemical energy into mechanical energy that propels the car.  Solar energy converts radiant energy into electrical energy.  Our bodies burn food to provide energy for us to move, work, or play a musical instrument.  Apparently the human body is very inefficient in this and most of the energy goes towards producing heat. 

An important place to start is to understand what type of learner you and your child are. Some of us are methodical and love to create lists.  We like to practice in the same order every day.  We appreciate when our lessons follow the same ordered sequence each week.  Some of us are more intuitive.  We don't need to warm-up or do exercises.  We just want to play.  We want to invent our own music and reading from the music score is difficult.  We may not understand what is actually on the page, and we only glance at it from time to time.  There are some of us who can do anything the teacher asks when we are in the lesson.  Then when we get home, we can't remember anything we did and so need a video or a parent to show us what we are working on.  There are a multitude of scenarios, and there could even be a combination of these mixed together. It can be a dilemma in home practice if parent and student do not have the same learning style. 

We can take the topic of "rules" a step farther by saying that when we understand rules, we can play games together! The concept of rules is a moment of enlightenment to the four year old. Our preschoolers played "Red light, Green light" this week.  What fun it is to play new games, but we must all learn the rules of playing the game. Children can learn chess and checkers when they learn the rules of how to make their "moves." Some of the most fun for older children and young adults is making up your own game and creating your own rules. For those that are familiar with the dramatic play surrounding an in-house "dungeons and dragons" game, creating rules on what super powers your character has and what constitutes earning points is part of the fun. Simply taking turns is part of the "rule" when learning to play new games.

We ask that children listen to music every day because this is how we create an environment where beautiful music is normal. Unlike the match that sparks a flame, we prefer the slow burn.  Constant, steady, and consistent attention to high quality and details lead us to believe, understand, and expect this in our own environment.  We want all children to believe in themselves.  They can learn to play beautiful music if encouraged and surrounded by listening to this quality music.  It is a slow burn.